We all love our children most when they are asleep .
Fife,
my oldest son learnt to play the piano. I know it was partly because of my own
wish but
I wanted to try..
When he was in the first grade, he learnt at home and a lecturer used to come to
our flat. It lasted several month, then he passed tests for Music school
(I don't know how to say „Zuš-hudebka“ and started to attend the
school.
It was horrible. Not because of his teacher (she was quite strict but a good
teacher) but because of his laziness and some circumstances. He used to be very
responsible pupil in the first grade. He used to do homework that didn't have to
be done. In the second grade everything changed. He was lazy, he didn't want to
do any homework at all, he always cried when he had to do any task. And he
didn't want to practise playing the piano..
I persisted six month. He played quite well, he has got skilful hands. But he
is not very musical (as I have written before – he doesn't like singing). It
was almost impossible to make him practise. He is very jelous of his younger
brother and he couldn't stand that he didn't need to do anything (he was at the
kindergarten that time).
And besides of this, our youngest was one year old, I had to take him with us.
We had to leave our flat at half past eleven twice a week and he was used to
eating later (because he used to have breakfast at nine). We hurried to pick up
Jirka from school, then really hurried to the Music school, then we had to wait
for an hour and we had to be quite (impossible with one-year-old). It was time
of sleeping, but usually he couldn't fall asleep. After the lesson, we hurried
back to the kindergarten to pick up the middle boy and we landed at home at four
o'clock.
It was unbearable. If he was good at music I would have persisted on attending
the Music school.
(Please, somebody, check the conditionals for me ).
Adam, the middle, learns to play the recorder at school. At first he
practised a lot and with enthusiasm. Now he doesn't want to go and practise but
when I tell him, he does it and he plays quite well. He is musical, he can
sing. But playing the recorder is not difficult. I don't know if I let him
quit learning the piano if he didn't want to practise. I think I wouldn't
because I think he could do it and it could be fun (one day) to play some
songs.
It depends on the kid and on the situation.